Okay I'm going to try and address questions let me know if I missed something -
1) Yes, I used a bungee (Called "Pup's Pal" after it's local inventor of the idea) because it pulls up the croll for me better than other options. I was a frogger for my first year of vertical and went through multiple chest harness types, but due to the breasts and falling away from the rope, tightening of standard chest harnesses for frogging (including all my own variations/alterations of such) simply made my back concave, and were very painful to wear. I couldn't get it tight enough to be upright , I could only curl my body. At such angles, the croll wouldn't slide up the rope. Or, if loosened, there wasn't enough tension to bring it up the rope. The bungee solved that issue and in the long run was more comfortable because otherwise I was being crunched painfully!
2) Putting a mallion between the D-ring and croll is an idea I actually used back then. The seat harness, however, is still the same. The weight while sitting on the rope still goes through that low D-ring. To help explain - think about how you have a short and long cowstail. If you are hanging off of just the short side vs just the long side, the distance of the lanyard to that attachment point on rope doesn't change how you sit in the harness. The same is true for lengthening the D-ring to croll distance. Your weight is held through the D-ring, no matter how high up the ascender sits.
3) I hadn't thought of how SimonSays did it - it may well work, or at least give you an idea enough if investing in a proper high attachment point cave harness is worth it. the only one I know of is the one I used in the video, made by Pangea gear here. It is an expensive harness, $150 or something like that, but it is a two for one and custom built (give him the measurements, it's made directly for your body!). There is a lot of padding on it that makes it soooooo comfortable but it is all removable and then it's a basic compact harness for all your narly in-cave stuff.
4) as far as the high point, for rappeling it makes it much nicer if you require it for your body type, because you can be relaxed and sitting for the rappel. This makes you closer to the rope, so it's easier to do on-rope manovers as you aren't trying to do a friggin' situp the entire time, but you are right next to the rope to do whatever it is you have to do. Changeovers are no more difficult - in fact, I found them easier because of this. I didn't have to struggle to stay upright throughout the process, I was already there! I actually had more space to manouver with because I didn't loose reaching distance because of the anglular struggle.
5) I *have* done rebelays with the mallion-between-the-croll-and-dring, and having the croll up higher did not hinder me in the least. I have *not* done a rebelay with the high attachement point harness yet, but I would assume the same properties (since it's higher up just like with the mallion between the two) and the fact you aren't fighting to hold yourself upright the entire time, make it fine to deal with. We'll have a rope course set up at a caving event in 3 weeks I can report back then if you are that curious. =)
6) measuring boob weight - well I used a kitchen scale that does 2 oz to 20lbs. Placed a boob on it carefully as to not weight it with body weight. Switch boobs, repeat. Did it 5x each boob to make sure I was getting an accurate reading. I did round the ounces to nearest pound but for the one, for example, it was all 12lbs 0oz to 12lbs 4oz for all the weights so seemed accurate enough.