Worth knowing, a standard 60mm Nitecore diffuser will fit all of the cheap 4 battery cell lamps including the eBay ?20 stuff, including the ones in your last photo. The problem here is the torch. The electronics are rubbish so that you get good power on fresh charged batteries but the output dives faster than the voltage on discharge. They also let water in, regardless of anything the seller states.
The super high power torches on the market such as the Imolent DX 80 are very heavy. I have one of these and it managed to switch itself on inside my clothing and nearly set me on fire.
I am using a variety of torches, one I built completely myself, and it cost me ?80 to build, others are off the shelf but modified, plus some bare emitter photo lamps that I built myself. The ?80 build has a toggle switch with a flip on and off cover and probably epitomises the conflict between practicability and style. Its actually become what I would call a "treasured possession".
I think that the diffuser route with whatever torch tales yotr fancy would be away to go. The diffusers do come in various sizes. Of course, you could just use a plastic bag.
Re torches themselves. From what I know and hear Fenix seem to be pretty indestructible, so matching one of these with a suitable diffuser would present a viable option.
Cant speak for Nitecore, and as for Imolent I have had very mixed experience of them.