Fulk, I follow what you say about the only one being able to carry the can for your sins is you. But there are examples - I'm sure you can think of some - where someone in authority takes the blame for his underlings' failure, even though he is not personally responsible. Or situations where someone else pays the price and bears the consequences for someone else's misdeeds. (I remember the time my daughter kicked a football through the window... "I'll pay for it," she said, contritely running for her piggy bank. But of course, she didn't have enough money, and of course her dad forgave her and paid the bill himself :halo: ) And the Bible tells us that yes, Jesus has already died for you and paid the price for your sins. That's why you - and I - can be forgiven for all the nasty things we've done and said. Of course, we can always refuse to accept what Jesus has done, and insist on carrying the can ourselves...
And, Graham.. Yes, God does warn us that the consequences of our actions will affect others, and that he will "visit the iniquity of fathers on the children and on the grandchildren to the third and fourth generations" as it says in Exodus 34. Note that it says that the
guilty will be punished, and that the bad results of the evil we do may well affect our children and grandchildren. And, in all fairness, it does say in Exodus 20:5-6 that while God warns that he will punish the children for the sin of the parents to the third and fourth generation of those who hate him, he will also show love to a thousand generations of those who love him and keep his commandments. In other words, the bad results of sin are much more limited than the good results of obedience...
BitterEnd, I hear what you say about "not having the free will" to do certain dreadful things that, unfortunately, others clearly have the ability to do. But what exactly is it that stops you doing these things? Is it that you feel that you
ought to be so evil, and are in some way disappointed that God won't let you? No - I didn't think so - you're not that sort of person (I hope!). But some people
are that evil, and I suppose that if God interfered with their free will and stopped them doing (or wanting to do) such dreadful things, you could argue that they didn't have free will any more... It's a difficult question for a Tuesday afternoon, an unfortunate and unpleasant fact that we have to live with, whether we are pinning our hopes on a loving God or inbuilt animal altruism...
And if I were to lose my faith, I don't know what I'd do. If I were not a Christian, I would be sorely tempted to put number one first and let the rest go hang - by nature I was (am?) a decidedly selfish brute and have to admit I caused a lot of hurt to a lot of people in trying to get my own way before Christ gave my life a new direction. I'm not perfect now, I know - but please be patient. He's still working on me!
Descriptions of heaven and hell? You may have a point in what you say! The pictures that are given in the Bible have to be based on things around us in this world - there's nowhere else we can get our pictures from. Those of hell, seem to be drawn mainly from the Jerusalem municipal rubbish dump in the valley of Hinnom (where the fires never go out and the worms devour what is dumped there) and, possibly, a volcanic crater. Some time ago I visited such a crater on Nyssiros, still hot enough that you couldn't stand still, and with sulphur vapour coming up through holes in the ground - I couldn't help thinking of the "fiery lake of burning sulphur" in Revelation 20:10 and 21:8. Heaven? Jesus refers to his Father's house, with its "many mansions" or permanent dwelling places in John 14, comparing heaven to the most opulent of royal palaces. There are pictures of feasting and joyful responsibility and, in the Revelation, a beautiful city with streets of gold and where there is no pain or sorrow. Maybe cavers think more about the pictures of hell because that place is commonly pictured as underground?
Sorry if I've been long winded, but I felt you guys were looking for some serious answers. I've done my best...