Ian P said:
Pete
I am really sorry that our new caving kit and presence in the cave caused you so much offence...
I'm not easily offended Ian and I am always very pleased to see people enjoying the underground for the first time (refer to my post above), however coming across a very inexperienced group in the wrong part of a complex cave system, a long way from any entrance (where experienced cavers have regularly been known to get lost) is likely to cause worry to any responsible caver.
With your current experience, put yourself in my shoes for a minute, would you really have sent three unknown people, on their 1st or 2nd caving trip, with basically no SRT experience up Lancaster Hole, unsupervised? Remember, I'd initially suggested taking you guys that way as it would have been a really fun trip for you, but I became very worried by the comments from your group that you did not have sufficient experience to safely exit the cave this way, so I suggested an alternative. Remember also, from the moment we met and it became clear that you were in the wrong place and unsure of the route, I immediately started thinking of ways that I could help you, regardless of the inconvenience it would cause me or the delay on an already long trip. Not once did I criticise your group, but instead tried to understand your experience and come up with a suitable option to make sure you had a good trip and got safely out.
You may well have been able to retrace your steps and get yourselves out, but many people would not be able to do that on their 1st or 2nd trip. The fact that you were in a stonking great passage, having expected to be in small passage, suggested that your leader's memory for the cave was not perfect, so it's a pretty fair assumption from the available information, that you were at a genuine risk of needing rescue, if left to your own devices. I was worried enough by the situation that I still remember it more than a decade later.
We all have to start somewhere and we all make mistakes and do stupid stuff along the way; I'm definitely no exception! So long as nothing goes too badly wrong and so long as we learn from it, then it's no big deal, but it doesn't make the stupid stuff we did any less stupid, nor does it mean that we should encourage others to make the same mistakes. As many have said on this thread, they have started out without a helmet etc, but would never recommend it now.
Either way, I'm very glad that you and your friends have continued to enjoy caving and have since introduced others to this great sport