It is worth bearing in mind that peak forces seen by breaking ropes vary from 6 to 16 kN. The standards usually link back to a value of 6 kN based on an estimate / guess that that is what most people will walk away from. (Though not if you already have a 'bad back'.) Parachutes are reckon to open with a force of around 12 kN but it should be remembered that the parachute harness is a hell of a lot better at spreading the load into the whole of the body than most SRT harnesses that cavers use. The late Paul Seddon wrote a decent report on the topic entitled "Harness suspension: review and evaluation of existing information" in 2002. It looks like the HSE web site has lost the page so if anyone wants a copy, PM me.I would expect an anchor to be permanently deformed from a trial test with its full intended system design load applied (IIRC that is acceptable as long as there is not anchor failure under BS 7883), but not for a proof test of the service load (anticipated real world use load). 6kN is a pretty standard periodical proof test load for industry, and any anchor made for that use should not be affected by that kind of force.
Which is not terribly surprising given that none of the above are rated for EN795 and proof-loading is outside of the manufacturer's instructions for use...Another point which arose during that time was routine pull testing of anchors in line with that recommended for EN 795 PPE anchors. What we did not realise is that the heads of the DMM P anchor, the PECO anchor, the BP anchor and the IC anchor all flex at or below 6 kN.
Testing is not simple and as you say, mountaineering anchors are required under EN 959 to be tested in concrete. The strength of concrete is much less than a range of rocks. So the high axial pull out values found for BP anchors of 30 plus kN is reflective of the strength of the limestone we tested them in, but that is not always the case. The first round of PECO anchors were tested in one quarry with a mean pull out value of 27 kN due to the quarry rock being thinly bedded and relatively weak bituminous limestone strata. In a different quarry the anchors reached 34 kN. If you read Bolt Product's web site, you will see he manufactures BP anchors in different lengths for different rocks (sandstone for example being weak). But as a warning, my memory is that an anchor placed in an oolitic limestone (as I recall in a mine) came out at 12 kN due to rock failure. It also helps if one places the anchor in a solid bed of limestone; hearsay has it that one installed anchor was found the following week at the bottom of a pitch after the slab had peeled off the wall.I suspect/have previously heard claims that the extra strength for mountaineering anchors is to compensate for the lack of regular inspection and/or account for the much greater variation in substrate. The standard testing is done in a block of concrete of a certain compressive strength; rock can be weaker than that so you want some safety margin. The BP anchors and IC anchors, I think, get greater than 25kN both axially and radially.