Goydenman said:
Wrong - I spent time when I first started caving going on courses at Wherside Manor as was at that time with a mate, bought a guide book and enjoyed exploring the caves in my area. Applied to join caving club and was told too young! So ignored club scene carried on learning, exploring and got into digging. Then when I found something desent was told you can join now! Regarded myself as bona fide caver even though I was not in a club and still would potentially for anyone else not in a club. Clubs can help develop caves and cavers and somtimes do the opposite.
I can see where you decided a club was not for you. A similar thing happened to me MANY years ago. I started caving with a couple of school friends - not easy as we lived in North London - so we had the occasional trip to Mendip using our 125cc motor bikes staying in youth hostels. Very soon after Dave had joined a London-based club and had been telling me about his caving exploits, I decided to follow suite - they had use of a van! There was a trip to the Dales planned the following weekend and I was strongly advised to get a wetsuit. So I got a DIY wetsuit kit from the old Aquaquipment shop in St Albans and spent the whole of Thursday (school holiday) cutting out the pieces and gluing/sewing it all together in Dave's kitchen. We turned up at the pub in London as arranged the following evening for the trip to the Dales. On of the club members eventually came over and after introducing himself asked if I was over 21 - I said I was still only 18. He said, "Well you're too young to drive the van, so f**k off". Charming.
As you can imagine, I decided perhaps a caving club was not for me.
But, a few months later, we realised the three of us were getting fed up of visiting the same old caves with our paltry pile of gear: 3 x 25 foot ladders and one 50 foot length of rope. We couldn't afford to buy more gear and decided to try a club again - but a different one this time. Well we found a different one, and found all the members very friendly and a pleasure to cave with. Soon we were caving all over the UK and also trips to Belgium and Ireland. If we had continued as the three non-club cavers, this would not have happened. Also, quite a few years later I went on a trip to the Gouffre Berger organised by the first "unfriendly" club and they were a different set of individuals -all very friendly and likeable.
Well that was MANY years ago, and I now live in the Peak District and a member of a different club - sadly the previous one became defunct.
The point is that as with all groups of people of one type or another, they are all different - even in the same caving club.
Anyway - I agree with Jasonbirder. Being a member of a club is not a requirement to be a "bona fide" caver. Being a "caver" is the only requirement. As to how you define who is a "caver" and who isn't, well, that's a different argument and being a member of one group or organisation or another is not proof one way or the other, in my opinion.
But saying that, I enjoy caving with the others in my club - as well as other cavers I often cave with who are either members of other clubs or not a member of any club at all.