Peter Burgess
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Perhaps its just a perception of the commitment required. Do folks think perhaps that "Caving has to be for life" whereas the gym or swimming pool is just for evenings and weekends when they can fit it in?
It's for life alright - even when you're elderly (I must be, I've just had a postal invite to take part in survey of same ) & knackered there's still something to contribute. Be it digging, admin or just aggravating younger cavers!Peter Burgess said:Perhaps its just a perception of the commitment required. Do folks think perhaps that "Caving has to be for life" whereas the gym or swimming pool is just for evenings and weekends when they can fit it in?
cap 'n chris said:So, if you are a caver you'll be doing lots of caving. If you don't do lots of caving you're either a non-caver, an ex-caver or a resting caver who is eager to get back to doing lots of caving.
kay said:Caving may be for life. But I don't see why it has to be your whole life
kay said:Caving may be for life. But I don't see why it has to be your whole life (unless you want it that way)
Les W said:kay said:Caving may be for life. But I don't see why it has to be your whole life
Aha. That's where I'm going wrong then.
You may have hit the nail on the head there. I know folk who are cavers to the exclusion of all other things in life (some may say bloody selfish) & others who are lifelong cavers, who just keep "dipping their toes back in the water" so to speak. But they never loose the bug.kay said:cap 'n chris said:So, if you are a caver you'll be doing lots of caving. If you don't do lots of caving you're either a non-caver, an ex-caver or a resting caver who is eager to get back to doing lots of caving.
Or maybe you're someone who wants to cave now and again. Like someone who enjoys going out for a good meal a couple of times a year but doesn't want to do it every week.
Caving may be for life. But I don't see why it has to be your whole life (unless you want it that way)
i agree the notion that anyone whos meant to become a caver will become a caver no matter how closed we try and be to the outside world iritates me somewhat would you want to take part in a sport where the participents spend there time debating wether or not we even want more people because they might damige the caves or become a burden. from the outside looking in i suspect the caving world apears quite closed.Andy Sparrow said:Perhaps they should JFDI and remember the help and support they needed when they began caving as a novice not so many years ago.
Andy Sparrow said:.... any grade 4 or higher cave ...
ian.p said:one of things thats been noticed in fsc is that realy young people(<7) are generaly compleatly fine with the small spaces and dont seem to notice the dark perticulaly but once theyve been exposed to commen ideas of what is scary its then that thease bariers are created.
Anne said:I think ian.p is right when he says that children eventually get exposed to common ideas of what is scary and then they develop their fears or sense of wariness - which is just as well because they are learning how to stay safe. I have taken quite a number of groups of children on caving trips and it is often the smallest ones who say 'I wont fit through there Miss' despite the fact they have seen grown adults two or three times their size just do it!