spikey said:
I am aware that some may say 'join a club', but I have been there and bought the t-shirt over the last 20 years, and became disillusioned with the beaurocracy / in-fighting etc. that always seems to arise whenever a committee becomes involved.
The problem that caving clubs are not all the same. Just because you had a bad experience with on (or others) doesn't mean thay are all like that.
Many years ago I was going to join a certain London-based club for a trip to the Dales where I hadn't yet been, being still at school (in the 6th Form) and living in London at the time. They insisted I needed a wetsuit, which I didn't have, so I trundled off to Aquaquipment in St. Albans and unfortunately they hadn't any ready-made wetsuits in my size in stock. So I bought a "kit" wich was a large rectangle of 5mm neoprene with a red nylon lining which had all the sections marked out using templates.
I spent the whole Thursday (we had the day off from school for some reason) in a scholl-mate's kitchen (who was already a member of this club) cutting out all the sections of the wesuit and gluing them togeteher, gluing tape on all the seams and also sewing up the inside nylon liner on all the joins.
The following day we set off after school to meet at a certain pub to meet the other cavers. They seemed glad to see me cluctching me new wetsuit and other gear. They asked if "by the way - you ARE over 21, aren't you?". I replied I wasn't (I was 19) - to this the replied, "Well you aren't old enough for the insurance to drive the van - so f**k off!".
Charming.
So, as you can believe this put me right of caving clubs altogether.
My school-mate and I, along with a few others, continued caving but as we could only afford 3 25 foot ladders and a bit of rope plus only having small motorbikes or mopeds for transport (plus the occasional borrowing of one of our father's ols Ford Anglia), caving trips from London were pretty restricted to a few caves in Mendip, South Wales and the Peak Distict.
Eventually these caving mates dropped out of caving for one reason or another until there were two of us. We decided to giv another club a try and settled on Sta Albans Caving Club as St. Albans was within reasonable distance to our homes in North London.
Things improved dramatically: access to loads of gear, trip all over the UK, trips to Belgium and France! We could never have done this by ourselves.
Eventually this particular club dwindled and died out - I moved to the Peak and joined another club, this time a large well-established club with a hut. Yes, there is a Committee but there are only occasional meetings and these are mainly to discuss forthcoming trips, occasional work on the hut, etc.
The only beaurocracy is when joining: you fill in your name and address on a form, get two current members to sign, pay your subs/insurance, there's a vote at athe Annual GM or Half-Yealy GM - that's it. Meanwhile you are a Prospective Memeber and entitled to all benefits of membership (Insurance, permits from CNCC, reduced rates saying at the hut and some other club's huts, use of oodles of rope and other gear, etc,) except for voting at a Meeting (which you needn't attand anyway...) If you want to go caving, you go caving. If you want to just cave and have nothing to do with monthly pub meets or events at the hut (BBQ, Xmas Dinner, Bonfire Night) or meetings then that's fine - no problem. Just pay your subs/insurance on time each year.
We have a fortnightly Meets List to the Dales, the Peaks, South Wales - even Mendip!
Meanwhile I have been caving still all over the UK, Ireland, France, Slovenia, Thailand and Spain - again highly unlikely if I hadn't joined.
Try a club or two more - see if you change your mind! They definitely are not all the same, large or small.